Getting ready for the trip...

I've got my Heart Catheterization scheduled for Wednsday, April 18th, at Mount Sinai.  The same doctor who performed the last one is scheduled to do this one, so I'm going to have him not even try to go into my neck (they couldn't get into the vein in my neck last time, spent 20 minutes and a lot of Morphine & aggravation for me, trying to do it), and just do it in the groin area (the crease where the thigh & torso meet).  I like this doctor, nonetheless, because he tells me the results right as he's doing the procedure, doesn't make me wait for a week to get the results, waiting on pins & needles.  All I want to hear is "You're tension levels are great!  You're still medically cleared."  Anything other than those words will cause me massive, paralyzing depression!  It will mean that I cannot go to FL, or I can, but it'll just be a waste of time, because I'll be off of the list, and will need my medication adjusted, require another heart catheterization 3 months after my medication gets adjusted, and it'll just be a nightmare!  It gives me chills just thinking about it, to be honest.  I'm fairly certain that won't happen, because I've quit smoking, I've got no problems breathing, been exercising, and I've never felt greater!  So, all should be well.  Keep me in your prayers for that one, however.

With that said, I've got quite a lot going on.  I'm still going on my 311 cruise (I've spent close to a grand on this cruise, and I really need the vacation, as well), and I leave to Miami on May 9th, and I know I'm going to spend money while on the cruise, which, unfortunately, I'm going to have to keep at a minimum.  I'm paying for things now so that I'll have available funds and won't be broke afterwards.  I'm going horseback riding on the beach (the horse actually goes deep & swims in the ocean!  Pretty cool, huh?) and, of course, my personal favorite, jet skiing!  I'll be doing these activities on the island in the Bahamas, Half Moon Cay (the private island that 311 owns and will be performing live at, as well).  I've also noticed that for the concert that's taking place on the cruise has seating.  This I knew & I had thought that I'd be in the nosebleed section, but, to my astonishment, I'm in the 2nd row from the stage!  Pretty awesome, I must admit.  I know I'm going to have a blast...the only thing that I need to worry or concern myself about is...nothing really!  I'm going to have the time of my life, and food & non alcoholic drinks are all complimentry on the cruise, so I won't be spending tons of money while on board.  It's only 4 nights and the person I'm sharing a cabin with told me that he didn't spend more than $200 last year when he went, so I shouldn't spend more than that, either.

I arrive back in NY on May 14th.  I've decided that I'm going to cancel my NY Medicaid on May 8th (the day before I fly out) because I'll only be in NY for a day before returning to FL (in Fort Lauderdale) on the 16th of May.  I'm then going to re-apply for FL Medicaid that same day that I cancel my NY Medicaid, so that I can be approved by the time I get to FL.  I've got a 'safety-net' while down there, thanks to a very good friend of mine (you know who you are if you're reading this!) who added me as an authorized user on their credit card...just for emergencies.  NFT will reimburse me for things that I need while there, however, they do just that.  Reimburse.  So, if I don't have the money to pay for things that are necessities (eg. food, transportation, etc.), then I won't be able to get reimbursed.  It's not like I have unlimited access to those funds (which, by the way, are surprisingly low.  For all those reading this, the time has come where I really need the finances to make this happen, so please make a donation in my honor, to NFT, by clicking here.  Every donation is much appreciated!), I have to show proof of what I'm using things for, and get reimbursed by check, and only based on how much funds I have available, which, like I said, are not much.  I can easily see what I have available right now being depleted in 2 months, at the most.  That's not very comforting to me, and I definitely don't want to have to come back to NY because I didn't have enough money to stay there.  I also don't want to have to rely on one person (my friend who's paying for my lodging while there) to take care of my financially.  It puts me in a bad position & I've never been the type to depend on others.  Unfortunately, this is something that my friend is willing to do, and without her help, this would not be possible for me.  I can only be grateful & show my gratitude in the best way I know how.

Well, that's about all for now.  I'll try to post after my heart catheterization.  Till next time...

Jumping the gun...Going with the flow...

Well, seems like I've spoken too soon!  First off, I'd like to say that a lot of stuff has happened since my last entry, and I will get into that here.

My boyfriend, Sam, cannot donate to me or anyone else.  I'm not even certain that he's spoken to his family about this, but the results are in from his MRI and he cannot donate.  The reason being is because his liver volume is as follows: 73% equals his right lobe and 27% equals his left lobe.  They must take his entire right lobe for the procedure.

For those few out there (or maybe many) who do not know how a living liver donation works, I'll explain: The recipient (being me) with the diseased liver gets their entire liver removed.  While this is happening, simultaneously, a team of surgeons are working on the living donor.  The living donor must meet certain criteria (such as organ ABO match, which is blood type equivalent, and me being blood type A, means that I can receive from blood types A or O & that's a very good thing, because 83% of the population has blood types A+/- & O+/-.  The worse blood type for a recipient to be is O.  O can only receive from O, making it much more limited as to who can donate, also making it a much more desired organ type for those who are very sick) and once that criteria has been met, the surgery consists of having the healthy living donor's entire right lobe of the liver removed, which is 60% of the liver, and that right lobe replaces my entire diseased liver.  The donor is left with 40% of their liver, the left lobe, and in 3 months, it fully regenerates and has 100% function of their original liver.  What regenerates isn't the removed right lobe, but the left lobe grows to fill the empty space that was taken (the 60% of their liver, the entire right lobe), and the same exact thing happens in me, as well, only vice-versa (the right lobe grows to 90% of my liver's original size in 3 months, with 100% function of a normal, healthy liver).  It will never be the same exact shape, anatomically, but it functions just as good as an entire liver (right & left lobed liver).  So, the end result, is 2 perfectly functioning livers.

Ok, so now that the 'surgery lesson' is done with, if you re-read the 2nd paragraph of this entry, you'll notice something that's not correct.  Sam's right lobe is 73% of his entire liver and his left lobe is 27%.  On most (or it could be only some, that I'm unsure of) people, the right lobe is no more than 60% of their liver, so that 40% of their liver (the left lobe) is what they're left with to regenerate.  It's a necessity that the entire right lobe be removed.  If they were to remove Sam's right lobe, he would only be left with a small left lobe, which is only 27% of his liver, meaning that he cannot donate safely without putting himself in mortal danger.  Simply put, he would not survive the surgery because he would have an insufficient amount of liver mass.  It's been brought to the IDAT (Independent Donor Advocate Team's) meeting, and this was their determination (verbatim):

You have completed your living liver donor evaluation.  As we had discussed, at the completion of your living donor evaluation you are presented at the living liver donor review meeting.  Your case was reviewed today and the Donor Advocacy Team discussed the specific components of your evaluation in a multidisciplinary approach.  Our Team's consensus decision is that you are unable to safely donate a portion of your liver.

The committee felt that it was medically unsafe for you to be a donor.  We feel that it is unsafe because your liver volume was too small for the volume that the recipient needed and the donation surgery would not have left you with a safe residual liver volume.  Enclosed are copies of your laboratory results, MRI and cardiology results.

That's what the letter says, and even though they've called Sam and we had a very emotional discussion about it, which left me feeling sad, hopeless, and full of so much despair, I also felt really bad because Sam was telling me how sorry he was and it's not his fault.  He was willing to undergo an unnecessary surgery for me, and was already making preparations to do this, since he was pretty confident (as was I) that he would be a perfect candidate to donate.  His lab's, MRI & cardiology results came back perfect, so if it wasn't for the fact that his liver is not perfectly anatomically shaped (which is what you're born with), then he would've been a perfect candidate.  But, sadly, that was not to be.  I think that since he was the only person who actually got screened (and getting screened, by the way, doesn't mean that you're consenting to surgery!  It only means that you're interested in donating, and my insurance pays for all screening), and more than that, he was ready to do this, means more to me than anything.  This whole experience was very stressful on the both of us, but it's also brought us closer together.

I'm very surprised at how all of this has worked out, to be honest.  This was my last chance.  No one else is getting screened, and there's only one person who's called to get screened and I'm pretty certain that they're not serious, and even if they are serious (not to say I'm being picky, cause at this point I don't care where the organ comes from!) I will not accept it.  I'm 99% certain that they're not serious, and I'm not going to get into details about that.  So, there's no one who is going to get screened, and that's a done chapter.  In an odd way, it's almost better to be blissfully unaware of where the organ comes from, and not to put someone that I care about in jeopardy because of me.  What if the surgery would've been a success for me, but something bad happens to Sam?  I'd feel just awful.

There is a bright silver lining in this cloud, however.  I've done some research, and Broward General Medical Center in Ft. Lauderdale, FL has a much shorter waiting list for someone with my MELD score (MELD is an acronym which means: Model End-stage Liver Disease, and it determines who is a higher priority to get a liver from a cadaver.  It ranges from 6-40) and blood type.  My current MELD score is 22, and soon to be 25, once I get another Heart Catheterization this month on the 18th, and if it shows that I'm still medically cleared, and, God willing, I am, then I can be listed in FL with a MELD of 25.  I've quit smoking cigarettes for 2 months now, I take Yoga classes almost daily, and I'm keeping myself in the best physical shape possible to keep my medical clearance.  I've called Broward General Medical Center (BGMC) and they've told me that someone with my MELD score of 22, and soon to be 25, with blood type A, would get transplanted fairly quickly.  I asked what does 'fairly quickly' mean, and was told a month, maybe less.  It's actually 0-6 months, but since nothing is guaranteed, I was told that for the majority of FL residents, it's a month, maybe a little less.  That's great news!!  I'm now having all of my medical records from Mt. Sinai sent over to BGMC and, once reviewed, Dr. Rick Hirsch, BGMC's Transplant Coordinator, will call me and give me more details.  One thing I do know is that I would have to live in FL 3 months post-op and become a FL resident.

I've met a very wonderful person who is willing to help me.  Her & her husband have agreed to pay for a fully furnished sublet for me for the 4 (or more) months that I'll need to be in FL.  I figure that I'll have to go FL for the clock to start when I get listed there, and since he said a month maybe less (the wait time to be called in for surgery), then I'd have to be there a minimum of 4 months.  It could be as long as 8 months, but I was told that it's highly unlikely that I'd be waiting more than a month for a call (once I've longed to hear for 6 years) telling me that they've found a match for me, and to get to the hospital ASAP.  If it wasn't for their extraordinary support, I would never be able to do this on my own.  My NFT funds aren't even enough to pay for a one month sublet, let alone 4 months, maybe more.

The plan now, is to get another heart catheterization (which BGMC has advised that I get done here, so my MELD score can go up to 25, and that it'll show that I'm still medically cleared for surgery) which is already scheduled for April 18th, speak to the transplant coordinator, Mr. Hirsch, get all the details that I need, go down to FL where I can be nearby when that call comes in (there's a place that I can stay in for the month of May, but after that, I'd need to be in a place of my own), even though the woman at the transplant center at BGMC told me that they have certain agreements with some airlines where when a liver becomes available, I would get bumped up to the next flight to Ft. Lauderdale.  However, I'd rather not do that.  I'd rather be closer when that call comes in, so that I can just take a car service to the transplant center & call my family and have them come to FL.  I've already discussed with Sam, and he would come down to FL when I get the call and am ready for surgery.  There's several reasons that I'd rather be close by, and it's because I'd like to already have an apartment set up before getting that call, not after.  After, I'm going to be feeling so ill, I don't think I'll be physically capable to doing much of anything other than rest.  Good news, is I've just found a place in Pompano Beach, FL, that is fully furnished, and I've spoken to the owner, and he's agreed to a monthly rate for me.  There's a pool, sundeck, fully furnished kitchen (which is important) and 2 queen sized beds.  Also, cable, wifi, and all of the necessary ameneties.  He's given me a very reasonable price, and I've explained to him my situation, and he's agreed to a monthly rate for as long as I need to be there for.  I've told this to my friend & her husband, and they think it's a great idea and are all for it, as am I.  They've assured me that I've got nothing to worry about, and to stay focused on getting listed in FL, and get myself ready for surgery.  They've been a Godsend to me!  I was in Palo Alto, CA for a week, and I met their family, and had a great time.  It's so wonderful to have met such generous people who are willing to help me, and I've pretty much convinced myself that people like that just don't exist anymore.  I've never believed in 'charity' for myself, and I've always done things, even things I'm not proud of, to get my own money & not to rely on anyone.  This is different.  The help is being offered to me, I didn't ask for it, and certainly didn't expect it, so the best thing to do is to be humble and accept their generous help.  I need this more than anything in the world.  My life depends on it.  Sure, I can stay in NY & rot on the waiting list for a year and experience all other symptoms of chronic liver disease, which I've already had about 90% of them, and wait until my body starts to 'shut down'.  But I'd rather die than have my loved ones watch me go through that agony.  It feels very weird, because in all reality, I'd be dead, or dying in NYC on the 'waiting list' if it wasn't for their help.  How do you thank someone for that?  It seems like such an understatement!

As I've said, I've scheduled another Heart Catheterization for April 18th and what's a little upsetting is that my MELD score has just been raised to 22, even though when I saw my Dr on the 2nd of February, I was told my MELD would be raised to 22, so they will not be able to raise it to 25 only until 3 months have passed since my last MELD increase.  It's so absurd that I should be the one who suffers for Mt. Sinai's procrastination on getting my MELD raised!  That should've been done over 2 months ago.  I'm still going to get the heart catheterization, because it'll be required to show that I'm still medically cleared for surgery...hopefully.  However, I've been taking my medication and I don't feel out of breath in any way, in fact, it's quite the opposite.  I'm also not getting any chest pains (angina) or any other PAH symptoms.  I'm able to do more things than I was capable of doing before and I feel great!  Once I get the Heart Catheterization, I'm going to FL to fill out any information and see the transplant team in BGMC, by that time, all of my information will be there, since Mt. Sinai is faxing it over right now as I write this.  Once I speak to the Transplant Coordinator, Mr. Hirsch, I'll know more and can then plan what exact date I'll be moving to FL.  I'll write another entry once I know more.  Till next time...

The screening has been completed...

Well, if you keep up with the 'ongoings of my life', then you know that Sam has been screened and did most of what he's got to do (ie. had MRI, spoke to surgeon, Hepatologist, Transplant Coordinator, Social worker, and everyone that is part of the Transplant Team, which is called the IDAT, which stands for Independent Donor Advocate Team.) and he's currently awaiting the results of his testing.

I cannot say much about this, since it's something that is personal, and it's not right for me to divulge the results of his screening.  Nor do I want this to deter anyone from getting screened, if need be.

Mount Sinai can only screen one person at a time, but I will say this:  There is someone who has called who wishes to be screened, if all does not work out with Sam, for whatever reason.  This is definitely a good option.  However, I'm torn in all of this.  I'm not comfortable with putting a perfectly healthy person, under surgery, for me.  On the flip-side, I definitely don't want things to get so bad for me, where I can no longer function, and am literally on the brink of death.  The surgeon told me, that with my current MELD score of 22, I would definitely not get a cadaver donor anytime soon, and due to my PAH, as you all may already know, I can lose my medical clearance at anytime.  If that was to happen, then I would be off the list, any living donor screening must cease, and I would be referred back to the Pulmonologist & Cardiologist, where my medication would be raised/adjusted and I would have to wait 3 months, get yet another heart catheterization after 3 months of being on the adjusted medication, and if my PAH is under control again, then I'll be where I left off on the active list, and living donor screening can commence once again.  However, this is something that is likely to happen.  It can turn into something that would just drag on & on, and it could cause indefinite delay in having my surgery.

These are the frightening prospects of not going the living donor route.  My surgeon & Hepatologist both recommend it, the success rate is much greater due to the fact that the surgery would be planned, a date that is suitable will be set for all those involved (the living donor, me, the recipient, and the Transplant team, both mine & the IDAT), and I would not have to wait until I'm on 'the brink of death' (which is exactly what my surgeon told me, verbatim) to get a transplant.  The reason that the success rate is much higher when done the living donor route, as opposed to waiting on the list for a cadaver donor, is because I won't be so deathly ill when I undergo the surgery, which makes my recovery much shorter, and minimizes the risks of problems arising due to being so sick when having surgery.  Simply put, the better physical condition that I'm in when I have the surgery, the better my chances of having a speedy recovery are.

When I spoke to my surgeon, I asked him how many liver transplants he had done in his life.  He's done about 100, which is what he said.  I also asked him out of those 100, how many patients had he lost, and he said "None...thank God."  I asked him what will happen when I wake up from surgery and he answered "You'll see me & another surgeon, standing by your bed, taking your vital signs every minute, and you'll hear my voice telling you that the surgery went ok".  I said "Hopefully, I'll hear that".  He then looked me into the eyes and said "Look.  I wouldn't do this surgery if I thought that there was significant risks to you.  You're a young woman who will have many years of life ahead of you."  Those were very comforting words, and I believed him to be sincere.  I think that someone who's done roughly 100 liver transplants, with no fatalities, is a pretty darned good record, in my opinion.  I would think that after doing 20 liver transplants, that the surgeon would pretty much have the procedure down, due to the experience.

Well, I leave to CA Tuesday, March 20th, and will be away for a week, and will not be able to post nor will I be here to hear what the results were, in regard to Sam.  Only Sam will be contacted about the results, and I definitely respect his confidentiality, so I won't go into details in that regard.  Mount Sinai did tell him that they'll call him in a week (this coming week) and tell him what the next step is from here.  If all of the screening went well, and the biggest part of that is that he's got no infectious diseases, and that he must have enough liver mass to be able to donate, without causing significant harm to himself.  If he doesn't have enough liver mass to donate, then that 'significant harm' would prevent the him from undergoing surgery and he would not be able to donate, and with good reason.  Also, his biliary ducts must be properly aligned and if they are, then he will be contacted as to what needs to be done to continue his screening.  I will be in contact with him during my stay in CA, and he'll tell me how everything went, however, I will not share details of that here, I will only say if he's a candidate for surgery or not.

I'm really keeping my fingers (& toes! lol) crossed for this!  I'm very hopeful that all will go well, and his screening will be completed, and a surgery date can be set.  I will keep you informed.  Till next time...

My living donor...

I've been hesitant to say who my living donor is going to be, and I'm going to keep this person's anonymity, at least, for right now.  This person has already had blood work, and is a match, and goes for their screening, which is going to be all day, both days, on Monday and Tuesday, the 12th & 13th of March.

I'm not nervous that this person will not be able to donate, because I'm sure they will, but it's just scary having someone put themselves in jeopardy, not really in jeopardy, but to go through an operation, for me. I really wish there was another way.

I spoke with the surgeon, who was a very nice man, and he told me that even with a MELD score of 22, which is what it's currently at, I wouldn't get a cadaver liver anytime this year, and more than likely, my PAH will not maintain it's current levels, which is what makes me medically cleared for surgery.  What makes a liver transplant more dangerous, is the fact that those who get a cadaver donor are very ill by the time they have their surgery, and if you're very ill for such a serious operation, then the chances of having something go wrong are much higher.  By getting my liver transplant now, the chances of success are far greater than waiting until all of the horrible illnesses that come from liver disease happen.

So, I'm pretty much on pins & needles until Tuesday, which is when I'll know if this person is going to actually be my living donor.  I sure hope so.

On the brighter side, I've been taking yoga classes, and they've really been working wonders for me.  I'm also pleasantly surprised that I'm more than able to do everything that everyone else does, if not, more than the average student.  The only 'limitations' that I thought I had, were the ones that I've put upon myself!  It's also helped with staying smoke-free, which I've now been for over 3 weeks.

I will write a longer entry on Wednesday, after I know what happens with my potential living donor.  Till next time...

The screening process begins...

I've now got three appointments to see the surgical coordinator, anesthesiologist and the psychiatric evaluation on February 17th.  All three appointments are very close together, maybe a little too close together, because my first appointment is at 9:30AM at the E98th Street building, and that one is for the surgical coordinator, then at 10:00AM, I've got to walk about 2-3 blocks to the main hospital where I've got an appointment with the anesthesiologist, after that, I go about one block up to my final appointment (and probably, the most boring/challenging) to see the Psychiatrist to be evaluated, as well.

I've got no fears as to seeing the psychiatrist to be evaluated, I just don't know exactly what they're going to say to me.  I always like to be prepared for those types of questions, and have answers ready to tell them.  But, I guess I'll just have to play it by ear at this point.  That's fine, I'm just going to answer the questions, without giving more information than is necessary (which, sometimes when I'm caught off-guard, I start to talk about things that are not relevant to the questions that I've been asked, giving away too much unnecessary information!  I've come way too far to make idiotic mistakes like that now!).

As for other news, I've got two potential living donors who wish to be screened, which is really good news!  I do feel a little torn, however, since both are, obviously, very close to me, and I don't want to put anyone in harms way for me.  But, as I've said in the past, knowledge is power!  I've been dedicating my time to know as much as possible about the living liver donation program at Mount Sinai.  That's important, and I've told both (as well as any potential future) living donor candidates to do the same.

It's hard for me to relate to that, since this is a completely voluntary decision made of their part, and, I know it's not fair for me to compare myself to any potential living donors, but I feel like this is a little unfair.  This is completely voluntary for them, but it's not voluntary for me.  No one ever asked me 'Hey, Vicky, wanna get a liver transplant?'  No.  In fact, I was told 'Either you undergo a surgery that has many risks, or the odds of living to 50 years old are less than 20%'.  I've even had the original Gastrointerologist back in 2007, when I first discovered that I had liver disease, tell me 'You know you're going to die from this, right?'  That was really hard to hear those words, and perhaps, when told so bluntly like that by a professional, I just couldn't deal with that, which lead me to divulge in my substance abuse problems, because I just didn't want to accept what he had told me.  I wanted to 'wake up' from this nightmare, and be ignorant about my illness and, in a lot of ways, be in total denial as to how serious my illness actually was.  Ignorance can be bliss, for some.  But not when it comes to your health!  We have one chance at this life, and once your health is gone, then most people take it one of two ways.  They either a) be in total denial about the magnitude of their illness and/or make the decision to not see any doctors, ever again, and just die from their illness, or b) do all they can to prolong their lives, and become eager to know what can be done about their illness, and that's when the 'survival mode' kicks in.  The will to live & the will to want to live and not give up.  I've been torn between these two courses of actions, but, in the end, I've decided that I will not live in denial of my illness...I just can't.  I've got too much to do, so many wonderful things to experience, things that I've yet to do with my life to just let it end here.  Not like this, and not at this time.  I've got too much to live for, and perhaps, in a way, everyone does, but not everyone can deal with all of these problems and continue to fight them.

It's just amazing that something that seemed so far off, is now right around the corner, and I hope that God gives me the courage to walk into that hospital, sign all paperwork and 'put my life in the surgeons hands'.  That's going to be the hardest part, for me.  Having to willingly give them my arm, have an IV put in, have the anesthesiologist inject me with general anesthesia knowing that there's a chance (even if it is a small one) that I may not wake up from this surgery.  All of the things that I want to say to my friends & family before I go into surgery.  That's going to be really hard for me, too.

I'm not going to be a 'drama-queen' and say my farewells to everyone prior to surgery, but I feel like maybe I should say something.  Perhaps that's just something that i won't be able to do.  All of this is very difficult and very real for me to accept.  But, this is what needs to be done.  My liver disease will only get worse over time, and it's not even the liver disease that will be fatal, it's the Pulmonary Arterial Hypertension.  I've never truly understood how serious my PAH was/is.  I should've realized that long ago, because I know how much that medication costs and it's insane!  The Letairis costs $5,300 a month, and the Adcirca costs roughly $1,400 monthly.  That's a lot of money and the doctor had to put in a special authorization to my insurance for that and it was approved (thank God!) because if they wouldn't cover that, then I'd already probably have one foot in the grave by now, maybe both!

So, I will keep advised as to how the screening for potential candidates for a living donor goes, and if there's anyone who wishes to know more about the living donor process, please feel free to contact me, and you can check out the links provided on this site, or email me and I will share that information with you.  Just so you know, I'm blood type A+, meaning, that I can accept a potential donor who is: O+, O-, A+ or A-.  Thanks!  Till next time...

Time's up! The decision must be made...

What a bunch of drama!  I hate to start off an entry like this, but there's really no better way to explain how I'm feeling right now.  Ok, first off; I saw the liver specialist (Dr. Schiano) today, and I always leave there feeling like shit (and I know 'shit' ain't a feeling, but it is for some!), especially going there by myself and having to take all this in with no one to support me when I leave his office, feeling like an emotional train wreck!

Here's the situation:  I had several questions that I wanted to bring up with him, and I wrote them down (since my memory is pretty bad), and I'll share here what the questions were and how they were answered.

1. Q-Recent lab results have shown that my AST, ALT & Alkaline Phosphotase have, strangely, shown normal, after being extremely high ever since I was diagnosed with liver disease.  Why is that?  Also, why are my RBC's, Hematocrit & Hemoglobin low?
2. Q-What forms of Birth control can I get on?
3. Q-I'm in serious need of Dental Implants.  What are the chances of success, and I will I encounter rejection issues, since I need not only dental implants, but bone grafting and a sinus lift, as well?
4. Q-I'm going to FL on May 9th until the 14th.  Would it be advisable to get on the FL waiting list for a transplant?  Would my NY Medicaid cover this?  Is it more trouble than it's worth?
5. Q-How long am I expected to be on the NY waiting list?  What is the length of the medical clearance that I've just been given as of December 19th, 2011?  The Pulmonologist informed me that if the transplant is not done in 6 months, another heart catheterization would be required.  Is this true?
6. Q-How can I get any potential living donors screened?  What exactly does the process entail?
7. Q-Is there any possibility that a liver transplant is not necessary?  Has this ever been known to go away?
8. Q-What is the life expectancy if I choose not to undergo surgery?
9. Q-When can I be expected to have my liver transplant?  Regardless of living donors, if I have to wait for a cadaver liver?
10. Q-If I got a cadaver liver transplant, would it be a full liver?  Is the wait time less if I was to get half of a cadaver liver?
11. Q-Would my insurance pay for a home health aid/nurse attendant after my liver transplant?  If so, for how long?  If not, how long would I require, if at all, assistance with daily activities?
12. Q-I've been feeling very depressed lately.  Would it be harmful to get on some type of Anti-Depressants? (I can't believe I'm actually considering that, but for me at this point, I feel that it may help me with coping with all of this stress)

So, there's the questions that I've asked and here are the answers:

1. The low HCT, RBC's & Hemoglobin means that I'm anemic.  I should be taking Iron vitamin supplements.
2. No oral contraceptives since they can cause clotting issues, and for someone who has PAH, that can be very dangerous.
3. After transplant, when my PAH no longer requires medication (which, for 4 out of 5 people who have PAH and Cirrhosis, in one year the PAH goes away on it's own, post-transplant).  No action for dental implants is advisable pre-transplant due to the PAH.  Also, since my platelets are low, even by getting a platelet transfusion, the transfusion only raises the platelets for about one hour.  Constant platelet transfusion can lead to serious transfusion reactions, such as, infection, pneumonia, and, worse of all, a sudden drop in my blood pressure, which will then have dire consequences on my PAH, which will result in death.
4. Yes.  FL has a much shorter waiting time than NY does.  I need to contact the University of Miami, however, I would be required to live there for about 1-2 months, since the time it takes from when I get a phone call for a cadaver liver, I would need to be there in no more than 4 hours.  Insufficient time to jump on a plane and fly to Miami from NY.  I also need to ask them how long the wait time is for someone with a MELD score of 22 (my current MELD score was so low, it was like an 8, but due to the extenuating circumstances of the PAH, it's now increased from 8 to 22 and will continue to increase by 3 points every 3 months, but I would be required to have a heart catheterization every three fucken months!!!  That's simply crazy!  I've had 2 heart catheterizations in my life, and even with all the Fentonyl and Morphine that they give you, it's still hell!) NY Medicaid should cover all of this, it would be unnecessary for me to get FL medicaid, however, I would need to live in FL for the wait time that it would take for someone with a MELD of 22 (I think it would make more sense to get another heart catheterization in late April, so that I can go to FL with a MELD score of 25, which will make my wait time shorter) to get a liver transplant, which could be a month, or it could be more.  I would also probably need to stay there for a little longer after I was to get my transplant, but can then come back home to NY and continue my post transplant care at Mount Sinai.  I think this is a very difficult decision to make, however, because I won't have any of my family there with me when I go into a surgery that I may not wake up from.  So, needless to say, that would be very hard.
5. NY Wait time, even being a priority, and this is if my MELD remains at 22 (which I will probably 'bend-over' and get the heart catheterization to show that my PAH is still normal, like it is now.  If it was to show up abnormal, then I would be off the list, have to go back through all the BS with the Pulmonologist & Cardiologist to have my PAH under control again, so that I can, once again, be medically cleared for surgery.  There's simply no possibility that they will perform the surgery if my PAH is not stable, since I will die due to cardiac arrest during the surgery.
6. For living donors, to find out if they're potential candidates (and all of this is in the link on the right side of this page, titled 'What Every Living Donor Needs to Know!'), they must have a blood type of O or A (+/- doesn't matter) and it's just a question of being in the physical condition to have an operation after that.  The screening process is 2 days, that consists of vigorous testing (MRI's, CAT Scans, Blood work, etc.) and if shown to be a match, then there is no 'wait time' and a surgery date will be set.  There's a telephone number for the transplant coordinator that would set all of this up, that is, if anybody is willing to undergo the risks involved in saving my life.
7. No.
8. My life expectancy is not in jeopardy from the liver disease.  However, it's the PAH that will cause an early demise.  If I choose not to get a liver transplant, then the odds of me living to see the age of 50 yrs old are less than 20%.  Those who've had a liver transplant, and PAH, in one year, it goes away.  This happens to 4 out of every 5 people who have cirrhosis and PAH.
9. 9-12 months, if my MELD doesn't go up and stays at it's current 22.  However, I believe that I will get more heart catheterizations so it can at least go up to the high 20's, but I can only get a heart catheterization every 3 months...no sooner!  The 9-12 months can turn into more like 8 months if I get another heart catheterization or 2.
10. Yes.  It would be a full liver, not half, and it wouldn't change the wait time.
11. My insurance should cover a home attendant, however, if they don't, then I will have to use my NFT Fundraising money to have a home health aid for about a month post-transplant.
12. Yes, getting on an Anti-Depressent is not a bad idea.  Just not Cymbalta since it's very damaging on the liver, which a lot of medication is)

This was, to say the very least, a lot of information to digest in one sitting, let alone one day!!  I really don't know what's the best 'course of action'.  It's very sad that things are turning out this way, but I can't sit here all day crying 'woe is me'...that's just not my style!  But, I think if more people knew what it felt like to be in a position of having someone who can save your life, then it would be one heck of a shock to their system!

Only those who've had to rely on others to give them the most precious gift of all...life, can truly know what it feels like to be in my shoes right now.  Once you lose your health, nothing in the world can get it back, and you only have one chance at this life, and no amount of material possessions can buy you a new life, or buy you the health that you so desperately crave.  It's really true.  People have the power to help, but it's at a very high price, and I acknowledge that.

Who knows?  Perhaps someone will get screened, and I will get my transplant before I lose the medical clearance that I've been fighting for since February of last year.  But if someone is going to 'step up' and be a living donor for me, then they must do so now.  I'd hate to go through all of the things I've already been through by losing my medical clearance.

I've also added a very resourceful link to what it entails to be a living liver donor, and how the generous gift of donation can effect someone's life.  Please Click Here to read more.

Well, I'm getting mighty tired now, and this whole ordeal has totally worn me out!  Till next time...

Starting the Chapter...

First off, I'd like to say to all out there, I've hope you had a wonderful holiday, and may this New Year be a great one for you, as well!

So, the 'Jitters' are really starting to affect me now...it's no longer a fictional (not that it ever was fictional, but perhaps, now, it's feeling a lot more real..hard to explain) event, but it's actually going to happen this year, and I speak of my liver transplant.

Regardless of living donor's, or lack thereof, I will have my liver transplant this year.  As everyone knows, or if you don't know, now you do, I now have the medical clearance that I so desperately needed for my life-saving liver transplant.  I have already seen the Cardiologist & Pulmonary Department at Mount Sinai Hospital, and I'm going to finally continue with the process of getting on the 'active' list on February 2nd.  That's when I see my Liver specialist/transplant Dr.

I must say so myself, that the last week has given me lots of perspective, not just with my health issues, but with other issues as well.  I've been so absorbed in my health, that I've not been giving much thought to what life will be like after my transplant.  I guess, in simple terms, I still haven't decided what I want to be when I grow up! lol!  I think that I've came to two decisions as far as that goes that a) I wish to travel the world and see more of other ways of life and b) I wish to study more...and not just for 'financial' gain, but just for the gain of enlightening my mind.

I'm going on a cruise this May, on a better note, to the Caribbean via Carnival Cruise, for 4 days of some much needed R&R.  I'll be leaving at the port of Miami, returning at same location, to a private island that is owned by a band that I have highly admired throughout my life, 311.  I've never seen them play live, and they will be performing 4 shows during the Cruise and I will also get a photograph with the band, as well.

So, back to the topic of this particular blog, regardless of living donor situation, which may still work out, after all, if I've learned anything from all of this, I've rekindled my religious beliefs that I've abandoned for many years, that the Lord works in mysterious ways, and if it's meant to be that I must wait for a cadaver donor, then so be it!  My health is what's most important here, and in many ways, I don't wish to jeopardize anybody's life, even if they have the most honorable intentions.  I just don't think that it'll work out and I certainly can't use coercion or 'emotional blackmail' to have someone do something that they simply don't wish to do.  I should've really taken more consideration about that, and for that, I'm deeply regretful.  Even though my Dr has told me that a living donor would be an ideal situation for me, I think this is my hole, so to speak, and I've dug it and I'm not expecting anyone to dig a hole for themselves in helping me get out of mine.

The Dr says the my Cirrhosis is Cryptogenic, which, doesn't actually mean 'unknown' Cirrhosis, because that would be more like Idiopathic Cirrhosis, but it means that I have Cirrhosis and there is a cause for it, but that cause cannot be verified.  However, I'm pretty sure how my liver damage has occurred, as is my Dr, I'm pretty certain, which is due to my past substance abuse problems.  All of that is irrelevant, however, because the simple fact is that I have Cirrhosis, it's here, regardless of the source, and I'm in need of a liver transplant due to this.

So, I will close here by saying that I will keep all informed as to what happens after February 2nd.  Thanks for reading, as always!  Till next time...